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Monday, June 23, 2008
Helmet Reminder
According to Michael, my uncle and father were discussing the ridiculousness of laws requiring people to wear helmets and seatbelts and such at the last family reunion--just a month ago.
I always tell my children about the time that I flew off my bicycle and cracked my helmet open--without getting hurt at all, beyond a few bodily scratches. My head was fine, though obviously it would have been cracked open if I hadn't been wearing the helmet, which took that impact for me. It was the cheapest, most ill-fitting helmet available, too, but it did the job. I emphasize to them that they might not exist if I hadn't worn that helmet! Needless to say, they're fairly good about remembering their headgear!
So, again, please wear helmets and encourage, force, beguile your children, family members, and friends to do likewise.
Plastic Bag Awareness
I just received a wonderful slide show that I wanted to share with you, but I can't figure out how to load it here. I've sent it to many of you. Just let me know if you'd like me to e-mail it to you, okay?
The slide show is about the environmental damage done by plastic bags. Even for those of us who are aware of this issue, the slide show is educational. Other large countries, such as China, Bangladesh, and Rwanda, have completely banned plastic bags, and Ireland taxes them--which has reduced plastic bag use by 90%. There's a lot to know about the damage that the bags cause, but a couple of interesting points in the slide show were that 10% of the debris washed up on the U.S. coastline consists of plastic bags and the amount of petrochemicals used to make just a few bags could fuel a car for a mile--so we can reduce our foreign oil dependency by using fewer bags. Imagine if the whole nation went to cloth bags?
It inspired me to remember those cloth bags as I'm headed in the store. Personally, I love to use the cloth bags, as you can fill them to the brim and it makes far fewer trips, less hassle, and less waste to deal with afterwards--it's just the process of remembering to return them to the car and to carry them in the store with me, but I'm always so glad I did when I walk out with my 3 cloth bags to carry instead of 13 plastic ones to deal with! Oh, and baggers are becoming much more comfortable and familiar with these cloth bags, so it's a much more pleasant experience to use cloth bags than it used to be! Just FYI, if you don't have bags or forget, many shops are offering very inexpensive cloth bags near the front of the stores--we've been picking up Food Lion cloth totes for 89 cents apiece! So it's totally manageable...
Like everyone, I oscillate on remembering this sort of thing. Habit helps, though. My kids, especially Alex, get very enthusiastic about using the cloth bags, though they don't tend to remember them from the car. Alex always wants me to buy one, though! I generally do, too, as the price is so reasonable and I know we can always put them to use later.
Funny, but Alex asked me tentatively this morning, as we were going into Kroger, "Do you think it's rude for us to carry a Food Lion bag into Kroger?" I laughed, as I hadn't even considered it, and said, "you may have a point there!" Anyway, no one seemed to react...:)
A couple of other tips on reducing plastic bag use include not bagging items which are particularly large or have handles--like bags of onions or potatoes or oranges, bleach, laundry detergent, toilet paper packages, twin soymilk packs, gallons of milk, etc. That often cuts down significantly on plastic bag waste. I manage this by quickly setting these things back in the buggy as I help with bagging, and I often throw extra items in the plastic bags that have already been 'filled' by the baggers. I'm fairly convinced that I manage to cut down on the plastic bags by at least half on these visits where I forget the cloth bags--and when I include just one new cloth bag along with these techniques on a large grocery purchase, I leave with amazingly few plastic bags, generally.
I had one friend who, when she was single, would reuse all of her grocery bags in a small trash can for all her waste. While I thought that might not be very practical for a big family, I suppose it could work if daily trash duty were given to the kids (beware Alex!). Anyway, I'd love to hear what you guys actually do to cut down on your environmental impact, so that I know what's actually easy to do and what the fringe benefits are!
Friday, June 20, 2008
Friends moving away
Our Indian friends are moving away to Missouri this week. It was a spur of the moment decision, based on a job offer to Suneeta's husband. Anjali is in the top picture with Fiona, Suneeta and I are in the middle picture, and Sanjana is with Alex in the bottom picture. All six of us take taekwondo together, the kids are all in gifted, and we're all vegetarian! The kids get along remarkably well, and Alex even likes Sanjana quite a lot, despite the fact that she's a girl and won a math duel with him! (He's in the midst of that 'yucky girl' stage.) Anyway, we always looked forward to seeing them in class, and the kids were always happy to play together during the adult class. Suneeta and I even left class once during the kids' class to play tennis! Suneeta has been in the United States most of the past 10 years, so the girls have grown up here. Sanjana will be sorely missed on the demo team in taekwondo, as she is absolutely fantastic. It's too bad that she's just a few months from getting her black belt. She's really earned it!
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
The Question of Vanity
That said, after hearing that vanity assumption one too many times, I erupted into a discussion with Michael about it. What I realized, though, is that vanity does play a role, but more in the sense that I want to be perfect. Superheroes don’t wear glasses (note Clark Kent just wears them to hide the fact that he’s a superhero). So perhaps it does. And maybe there’s a bit of that baseline vanity that everyone refers to, though it wasn’t the primary motivator.
Anyway, it’s interesting to ponder our motives for what we do. And perhaps we don’t admit to ourselves the superficiality of our motives much of the time. And maybe, just maybe, it’s okay to be a little superficial sometimes:).
A final note—as I sat down at the computer tonight, I started glancing around for my glasses, out of habit, before I realized that I no longer need them. Yay!
Martian Child
Lasik
I did have the unique experience of having the corneal flaps created in two different ways. They highly recommended the Intralase procedure, which cost $300 more per eye. This is the use of a laser to open the corneal flap instead of the surgeon-guided microkeratome (a cutting instrument). Well, to my mind, the laser sounded preferable, as they told me it had a lower rate of complications than the microkeratome, though both had a great track record. The laser had greater precision, though. More precision, fewer complications…easy choice in something as precious as your eye, eh? I had a vision of the microkeratome being something like a scalpel, with the surgeon crudely hacking away at my eye…
Turns out that my right eye didn’t qualify for Intralase, as the eye had a corneal scar. I’m guessing that scar came from when Katie, at taekwondo, poked me in the eye with the bong-mong-ee (a soft bat) during class. That eye had a red ring around the iris for a few days! Therefore, I had one eye done with Intralase and the other with the microkeratome. Interestingly enough, I vastly preferred the microkeratome.
Intralase: required 2 stations during surgery (which means the apparatus holding the eye open had to be inserted twice instead of once)—the first station involving eye suction (awful sensation!) to pull the eye up for the laser application; requires hourly drops of prednisone for a couple of days vs only 4x/d in the other eye; required an awful contact (I hate contacts) to be worn for 24 hours; resulted in a hazy eye with a lot of blurring—and my left eye was always my good eye! Oh, and it feels like something is in my eye—grit, an eyelash, or something.
Microkeratome: quicker procedure at one station; no contact; fewer prednisone drops; the eye feel great and has clear vision (20/20 24 hr post-surgically)! Also, I’ve got $300 more than I would have if Katie hadn’t fortuitously poked me in the eye last year!
They say the blurring is quite normal, and I apparently had close to 20/20 with my left eye at the 24 hour mark, but it’s so hazy…
Anyway, I’m sure it will all turn out great, and my preference is based only on one experience. Perhaps it’s true that there are fewer complications with the Intralase, but that’s difficult for me to believe, given all the extra measures that they take with the Intralase procedure, you know?
My current concern was pointed out to me last night—what I believed to be saline drops are actually propylene glycol—as pointed out to me by Michael, who says that is antifreeze! I get an awful taste from them, and they are recommended for months… Anyway, that can’t be good for me, and the absorption rate of the eye is quite high. Just don’t want to be applying something that is not so good for me continuously… I need to look up the toxicity info on that!
Okay, so it was a memorable event, that procedure. I think I’d had the idea that they just normalize your eye shape a bit with the Lasik, but now I get the sense that they were applying a prescription to my eyeball—which kind of makes me nervous, since my prescription strength doesn’t tend to stay constant. But I really don’t know…
Oh, one last bit on my Lasik experience. I was given a choice of having regular Lasik or customized Lasik—which reduces glare, improves night vision, and, in short, gives you super-deluxe bionic eyes with X-ray vision :). Anyhow, I did get the customized (for $300 per eye extra), of course, but I’m still trying to figure out how to turn on the eye lasers… Luckily, I was able to get both eyes customized, so I won’t be able to report on whether I can really sense a difference between having customized and not having it.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
The Pool
Hmm...good feedback...Fiona just shouted 'Isn't mommy the best mommy ever?' and Alex started up a 'Mommy Rocks!' song:). They're learning! It's my reward for taking them to the pool. And a good one!
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Montessori Centennial Celebration!
Maria Montessori was actually the first Italian female physician--so we can deduce that she was strong-willed and incredibly smart! Her first assignment was an unsavory position working with mentally handicapped children in a hospital ward. Maria achieved remarkable success with those children using practical, hands-on learning tools (now known as Montessori Materials). She later took these materials and implemented them with normal, poor Italian children when she created her Children's House. Needless to say, her system and theories of education have taken off.
I feel for poor Maria, though, who did not actually raise her own son, Mario. She must have channelled her maternal energy into all of the other children in her world! When I feel inadequate for not creating a new system of education or not running a huge practice, I just remember the fact that I get to spend time with my lovely children. Who knows...other such things may come later, when they're grown. We've got long, long lives ahead of us! Anyhow, I'm grateful for Maria Montessori's wisdom and efforts and love the fact that my children are being raised with a Montessori education.
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Monday, June 9, 2008
books continued...
Sunday, June 8, 2008
That Wholesome Story Irony
I was horrified! It turns out that the first chapter of this pious book is all about hunting, butchering, and preparing meat! We read about preparation of hickory-smoked ham, bear meat, venison, pig-tail-on-a-stick, sausage, headcheese (yum!), and bladder balloons. That poor squealing hog...the huge teeth on the bear trap...those deer hanging from the oak trees (a lovely view Laura gets one morning when she wakes up)!
While it was perhaps an educational experience, the irony was immense! Here I was worried about exposing them to complicated theological thought--feeling guilty about it--and so I remedy that by giving my vegetarian children graphic animal death scenes instead! I imagine that this is perhaps a wee bit more likely to give them bad dreams at night, don't ya think?
Hmm..I'm weighing what I should do here... I think it might have been the universe laughing at my attempt at piety. I did glance ahead to different sections, and they did all look nice and wholesome, but that was just too perfect of an answer to my fine intentions tonight. I am sort of considering returning the books, but maybe I'll keep trying for a couple more nights. I'm not the terribly overly-protective sort with the kids, but part of me is thinking it might be more decent to get the next Dark Reflections book instead!
An interesting related note is that I had a dream this afternoon that I was eating a stew that I believed to be vegetarian, but, after I was mostly done with it, I realized that it had all sorts of different meat in it--chicken, pork, etc. I felt a bit nauseated, of course, after nearly 20 years of being vegetarian. Anyhow, that dream was just after we'd bought the books. I'm wondering if my subconscious remembered that meat-laden aspect of the books, since I did read them when I was a girl but don't consciously recall very much from them.
Children's Books


Saturday, June 7, 2008
Kung Fu Panda and my old body
I have a current client who has injured herself with her intensive yoga practice, and we were discussing that perhaps we're doing more than our bodies are meant to do! We're both so achievement-oriented that we keep pushing it until our bodies practically hobble us to settle us down! But we love what we do... It's so hard to find the perfect balance. Oh well, I suppose these injuries are the fallout from exercise. Michael hurt his shoulder in class today, too...
The kids seem more resilient than us. I don't think they have the flexibility issues. Maybe we're just getting old!
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Alex the Artist
It was a lovely big event. Many were there in fine dresses, they served punch and cookies, and a classical pianist played. Next to the piano was a large piece of art--a feature piece, some sort of purple flower with a green background. I was quite impressed with it and Alex said, "I helped paint that". His name was listed along with three other students, omitting the essential teacher's name. He also had a painting there that he'd done on his own entitled Water Gun Wars. It was a wonderful event, and I was impressed at the artistic techniques that Ms. Tiia, the art teacher and last year's Teacher of the Year at Ellis, has managed to teach such young children. I had spoken with her about volunteering in her art room earlier in the year, as I think I'd learn a lot from her in these elementary school art classes, but I never made the time for it. She has many parent volunteers, though...perhaps some of them have the same idea as me!
Oh, btw, Fiona has decided that she wants to be a full-time artist when she grows up and had brought home a painting (a study in colors) that she had done that day in Ms. Sharon's class.
Friday, June 6, 2008
Gifted Girl!
The children in the gifted program receive extra resources and opportunities beyond their own classrooms. They have special field trips and explore diverse topics that aren't typically covered in an elementary school setting. For example, Alex had an architecture class through much of the past year. He also created a and performed a skit with his Odyssey team. Last year, they spent a day at the Children's Theatre, where they finished by putting on a mini-production. They work quite a bit on computers, and they were introduced to algebra recently. Anyway, I'm very excited by her acceptance--obviously!!!
I sometimes feel a bit concerned at the fact that my children receive these extra resources, but I've also read that gifted children receive much less in the way of teacher instructional time and remedial instruction. They typically require less teacher attention for behavior problems and are actually utilized by the teachers to help the other children (which is true for both Alex and Fiona). So, even with the extra funds for the Gifted Program, the gifted children by and large are not receiving more than their fair share. Soothes my conscience to believe this, anyhow!
Fiona and Alex will both be attending GEP (Gifted Enrichment Program) in the fall, which is typically several hours per week. Fiona has been receiving 'Enrichment' classes throughout the past year for perhaps an hour each week--being groomed for the Gifted exam, from some of what I've gathered from her reports of their activities. Hey, I'm not complaining!
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Fiona’s Magical Month of May




May was such a busy month! Two events that I didn’t really talk about were Fiona’s birthday party and her dance recital.
Fiona turned six years old on May 18th. We celebrated in quite a big fashion this year! The weekend before her birthday was our Universal Studios trip in Orlando, the Friday before her birthday was horseback riding (which she’d been asking for like mad) with Alex and her best friend Lillian, and her fabulous birthday party was at Master Richard’s ATA Black Belt Academy—complete with a yummy cake from Rum Runner’s Bakery. Fiona received the most thoughtful presents from everyone, and she had the nicest group of people there. Even her cousins, Nicholas and Elizabeth, came down from South Carolina to join the festivities. Her big tangible present from us was a lovely new bicycle—pink, with a basket—from Bicycle Link in Savannah.
The day before her birthday was also a big day. She had her annual dance recital at the Civic Center, a five hour event (yes, that’s 5 hrs!) in which she had one song as a hula girl and another as Little Orphan Annie (identical to the rest of her dance troupe). She was absolutely gorgeous with curly hair, sparkly costumes, and lots of make-up! She was so cute and it was more fun to watch this year, as the girls are developing a little more skill and coordination.
Holly's family pics /// Our neighbor Jay is home!

Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Mayan Coincidence
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Herbal Conference /// Lovely Yard Work
Anyhow, we enjoyed the herbal conference. It served to generally get us motivated to incorporate more herbs into our daily life. Two topics have my enthusiasm, in particular.
Gaia Herbs is a company right there in Brevard, NC. We toured the facility and the organic herb farm. They are deeply committed to creating high-quality products while preserving the environment, and we got to see first-hand how they combine modern, state-of-the-art technologies with sound ecological practices on a massive scale.
Rosita Arvigo, DN, was the keynote speaker. She single-handedly preserved a massive amount of valuable herbal knowledge from being lost. After doggedly pestering an ancient Mayan shaman for over a year to teach her his art, he finally gave in. He was past 90 years of age and had no apprentice. He trained her for 12 years, and she's catalogued the medicinal uses of over 500 rain forest plants in Belize. He could neither read nor write, and he seemed to be the last of his kind. They were both featured in an inspiring documentary, Satsun, that won many prestigious awards and, I believe, was nominated for 2002's best documentary Academy Award. Michael and I attended a couple of her seminars, and I'm looking forward to reading her book.